Your Opinions on DofE

Summer has so nearly arrived, and while this may immediately make you think: ‘EXAMS’ or ‘so close to a glorious stretch of no school’, what it actually means is that the Duke of Edinburgh expedition season is well and truly upon us.

There is most certainly, shall we say … a slight divide… in opinions out there on these expeditions, and so I thought I would capitalise on this in honour of Y9 recently completing their first one, and to make a nice send off for Y10, who are soon to be trekking around the Peak District.

I sent out a form asking for your experiences, feelings, and any unpopular opinions – really just offering a chance for you to anonymously unburden yourselves (some definitely took more advantage of this than others…) I am still not entirely sure if I chose to write this to entertain you or if it was honestly just to amuse myself – I had quite the blast combing through all your unfiltered thoughts. So please, sit back, and enjoy a handful of my favourite, slightly eclectic, responses.

What was your favourite bit?

  • The aesthetic
  • The deep philosophical questions because all acceptable conversation topics ran out
  • Seeing the sophistication of Mr Daws’ cooking whilst camping (he had a full bottle of olive oil and salt and pepper shakers)
  • Lauren’s Dora the Explorer hat
  • Finding the snacks at the bottom of my bag that I thought I forgot to pack. Best moment of the entire trip. Not kidding.
  • Tent hopping at 2 am
  • Some groups brought industrial and windproof matches to light their trangias so it was funny listening to their screams when they realised the matches couldn’t go out
  • The train back
  • Unpopular opinion… the actual hiking.

Least favourite bit?

  • The rain and the walking and the walking in the rain
  • Relieving myself in a bush to find myself in rather a public place
  • Standing in the rain, sadly eating our half-cooked pasta, not even looking at each other, just staring off into the wet
  • Thinking I could sing and making my group suffer through that
  • My sandwich breaking up into bits because it was so soggy
  • Sleeping – man, my back was messed up
  • Where to begin…

Most creative response to the classic ‘What did you learn from D of E’

  • 101 ways to argue in your group
  • Which of the people in my group really needs their sleep
  • To run your DofE so you can get it over with
  • Pain and suffering. And the power of friendship
  • Getting lost is a mindset
  • That the instructors have the ability to teleport
  • Do not bend over wearing your backpack. You will fall over and not be able to get back up again.
  • Bugs have big intestines
  • Whom I can trust…

Any random habits/rituals your group had?

  • Snoring
  • We ate over 200 pepperamis within two days
  • Apparently burning the pasta every time we cooked it but I always brought the gummy worms so there’s that
  • Acting like witches over the campfire before dinner… worked best when the camp was near woods
  • We ate trail mix religiously and named our group Team Trail Mix
  • Leaving me at the back -_-

Any particular types of people you noticed?

  •  I was the bossy one of the group 💪
  • The vending machine – the person who spent their life savings on snacks beforehand, so the entire group spends the entire trip on a massive sugar high
  • The one who felt the need to throw a random boy’s £3 slider into a tree
  • The housewife – what a trooper, spent 1.5 hours cleaning one pot
  • The dogged ‘come on guys just a little longer’ ones. Usually covered in mud and close to tears
  • The one who packed half their house jUsT iN cAsE
  • The rule breakers
  • The rule benders
  • The rule followers (us).

Extension: Any particular types of groups?

  • The know-it-all group who got completely lost
  • The group that kept everyone awake the whole night long xoxo
  • The group with identical braids
  • We all know that one group… they made it more exciting
  • The mum group: those who wake up at five to take pictures, leave at seven and arrive at twelve. Crazy impressive but scary
  • The group who thought shaking people’s tents and acting like wild animals was a good idea.

Thing(s) you wished you did differently?

NB: as an example on the form I put ‘actually worn your walking shoes beforehand rather than just said you did’ – sorry to those who replied saying they felt called out by this, and a shoutout to the person who wrote: ‘this sounds like something you did. Could do better.’

  • Not eaten all of my snacks in the first 30 minutes of getting lost
  • Not bothered with a group meal on the practice expedition because who am I kidding, pouring hot water into a packet is about my level
  • Not channelled my inner Peppa Pig and instead avoided the puddles on day one
  • Not gone
  • Nothing, I kind of slayed it
  • Filmed it because honestly, we could have made a tv show out of it.

Did you get lost? (Plus your best getting lost anecdotes)

81% replied yes, which means that 19% are either map masters or perhaps aren’t admitting something…

  • Getting lost is as easy as tying your shoes
  • The map was upside down – need I say more?
  • Our group got lost very publicly because whilst we were wandering around at the bottom of a valley every other group was on the right route at the top apparently laughing at us
  • We thought we were in the right place, we were not in the right place, we did not know that
  • We got a bit stuck in which direction to go so we texted the instructor a photo of where we were (as if it would help) and he replied with a ‘?’ so we decided to take the more dangerous option and walk DOWN this very, very steep hill and then my friend at the front slipped and got a face full of nettles. Good times.

Any miscellaneous comments/feelings/complaints/unpopular opinions?

  • Cows are very polite creatures
  • We found boys’ boxers so we threw them in a tree and called it the pant-ree
  • Waking up was the worst everything was moist and cold, especially yourself
  • Bring squash. I was pretty much insufferably hyper the first day and the pictures captured that nicely
  • Let’s just say that I won’t be forgetting this trip ever.

And finally, I asked for anything you associate with DofE, to collate into a lovely word cloud: